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Preparing for social gatherings as an introvert.
I am an introvert. There are times when I prefer books over people. Guess who is not an introvert? The rest of my family.
As an introvert, being social for over an hour is the biggest nightmare. But at times, there’s no way around it.
For instance, when we are having a party at my house. That happens when your man wants to celebrate his birthday with his friends. And yes, I am expected to participate. Only the thought of it makes me anxious. Luckily, it only happens once a year.
But as I think of the party, only the thought stresses me out. While extroverts might find joy in social interactions and derive energy from being around others, introverts like me often find such scenarios draining and overwhelming.
It’s not that I don’t appreciate my family or the friends who will be visiting; it’s just that my way of engaging with the world is different.
Introversion is often misunderstood. People sometimes assume that being an introvert means being shy or anti-social. However, it’s more about processing our experiences and recharging our energy.
For me, solitude and quiet are essential. I can gather my thoughts, reflect, and rejuvenate in those moments. On the other hand, large social gatherings for a longer time, can feel…
